Having the Right Prospective.

What are Prospective? Prospect are something expected, a possibility, chances, to explore the result on something you are aiming at. When we facing down in life there will be negative prospect about getting up and as my blog is mostly about positive vibe, having the right prospective on the ups and downs in life is a must, especially when in times of downs. We often face discouragement, disappointment and unwanted result that not only bring us down but it bring down the world and everything in it that we have work hard for. But i can tell you seed of discouragement can't take roots in the grateful heart.

The key is no matter what situation you're in there will be a side to be thankful for. Example a naive friend of mine quit his job to pursuit a better career and it didn't work out well for him and he started to blame his friends, God, and finally himself. Yes it will all back to you for mostly the decision is all in your hands. Thank God my friend pull through now, i spoken to him last month he change from having a negative prospective to a positive side, he might not have the job he wanted now for Chinese New Year is coming and tough time for him to find one but at least he had a part time job to support his very needs. He thank God for that, and i Amen to that. So stop thinking why this and why that, instead thank God for how far he has bring you.

 Well having a positive attitude towards it, is very important too. Sometimes we aiming on succeed for too much till imagine we're actually succeeding and making us neglecting the process of "how to get there". Like we often imagine our self as an millionaire or a billionaire and what sort of things we might do, whom we might bless, how big our house is going to be and we didn't think of how to get there until we were in the process of reaching it. All i know is the process of the a successful life is not easy at all for if you understand the real meaning of "Thank God for what you already have" you are a billionaire. Cause everyday is a gift from God cause we don't always have everyday like everyone else. Everyday we read somebody get shot nor killed in the news and you got to be thankful that it is not you.