Little by little, End like riddle.

Nowadays couple have a big argument, mostly started with little things that they doesn't want to tell it out, they thought its just a small problem and let it be.

But why keep bringing it out when its just a small problem? Thing is, we mostly love each other too much thinking that little problem were really "little" but fact is some big argument started by the past of so call little problem.

Sometimes we must just let our partners know that what way they do was offended to us. In that way we able to comprehend some situation that were going to be big. Beside that knowing and accepting each other were a tough job when a couple together for quite some time. Everything will seems nice at first when the chemical reaction were there to sparkling on seeing the bad point into a good point, but can your partner tell out your bad point you guys were in the stage of loving? Not mostly can is definitely can.

Even when our partner fart, we would tend to say "oh its okay.. everybody fart" with a smile. Think rational if you want a long lasting relationship. Unless you thinking about puppy love or looking forward to changing new partners.

Bad experience in love? No worry, learn from it and move on cause we tend to grow from bad experiences, and neglecting the experience of your friend might be bad too cause your are smart if you learn from experience but you will be wise if you learn from others bad experiences.

Beat dog must see owner.

Okay, this story is about a boy got bully due to some girl with crazy eyes, girls, do you know what guys afraid the most ?. Yes girls with crazy eyes

<< this is how girls with crazy eyes looks like, or why don't you google it to see more. 

Back to my story, this boy was trying to enjoy a festival of joy and prosperous, but when this festival about to end he receive a phone call and was told to return a very important thing, according to the girl with crazy eyes that call the boy, it was said that he was not suppose to take that thing but it was given in an misunderstanding way. Sort of. So that boy need to return it. 

The girl with crazy eyes not knowing that boy's friend know that girl with crazy eyes boss and he call to get more detail from her boss if its part of the company policy if it is that boy will return back that thing, cause he will respect that company policy but after a short conversation with the boss, that crazy eye girl was told to call back to that boy and that thing will not take away from him. Moral of the lesson, before you try to bully or beat the dog, do consider the owner of the dog 1st, cause you just might get bite back, ;) 

Viral Factor Review

Viral Factor is a 2012 Hong Kong action film directed by Dante Lam starring the two heart drop Jay Chou & Nicholas Tse, along with supporting actor like Andy On and Carl Ng. The movie was 80% film in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. Proud of that? Yes i am.

Nicholas Tse was see taking a cap.

It a non-stop action film fill with tears and moral. The movie can't keep my eyes of it, they have such a great script and great actor in combination. I have to say Jay's acting skill have been improved. This movie make me feels that there is no impossibility in making an action film in Malaysia!. The last i remember was Jackie Chan's Police Story 3 starring along with Michelle Yeoh, but it was only the last part that film in Malaysia.

This Movie is a must watch movie, i personally give it 4/5 stars.

Happy Chinese New Years 2012

This is the year of the dragon. And dragon represent  wisdom and power, usually with many magical ability, Dragons are depicted as wise and helpful entities, much to the contrast to their western kin, In China they mostly represent royalty and often worn by Emperor.

Dragon are one of the 12 animal in chinese zodiac which is use to designate years in the chinese calender. It is though that each animal is associated with certain personality traits. Dragon years are usually the most popular to have babies. Means 2011 is the year of sex-pumping-drive years for then only there will be more babies born in Dragon years than in any other animal years of the zodiac.

RunRay is here wishing all of my family and friends on social net-work and non-social net work a Happy and Prosperous Chinese New Year!

Imperfectionist to Perfection

Perfect, i believe everyone wants to be perfect but nobody is. Some even try to avoid the issue of their wrong doing in order to not gain any imperfect image about them. But i learn something new today that sometimes admitting our imperfect part of us doesn't make us grow weak but grow strong instead.

Mostly leaders or adult like me tend to forget the greatest truth, "We are only human" we are not perfect, not God and forever wont be.

That's why i believe sometimes big crisis happen in our life is to remind us that we are still humans and we all have weakness, in fact we all have a bundle of flaws and imperfections : physical, emotional,intellectual and spiritual. We sometimes have uncontrolled circumstances that weaken us such as financial or relational limitations. 

Admit your weakness own up to your imperfections.

Stop pretending to have it all together, and be honest about your self. Instead of living in denial or making excuses, take the time to identify your personal weakness.

As in the bible say "I'm glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may work through me..". Weakness prevent arrogance, they keep us humble. 

The Barber Shop

I went to the barber shop today and i found something funny about it, no its not related to the picture above its just something i add in to catch your attention. Okay back to my story, i was in the barber shop with my friend and i bum into a " hi hi friend " of mine that walks in, he so surprise to see me and he say " eh u haha, cut hair ah? ", I say " Ya.. haha.. " then i said to myself " if not then what would i be here for, shitting? " 

I guess this our culture. 

It reminds me sometimes i bum into some friend in the toilet they will say "hey come toilet ah?".

The answer i will give is not mostly but definitely a "Ya" and my heart will say "Of cz i come toilet i am in the toilet!"

I guess this is our hi hi friend culture. 

Forever Optimist

I believe there is nothing as forever optimist and think again life is too short to be wasted on negative vibe.
So what the hell right ? just think positive and move on. You wont forever stuck on the same path if you willing to let it. Its all your choice. When you being in a situation that nothing come close to being lucky i believe there is always something to be thankful for, cause God always make a way for those whom trust in him.

Check out this picture above, he got a point, its like a pessimist and an optimist, so much the worst and so much the better. Winston Chuchill once said " A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity but an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty."

A Singlish Joke to share

I remember there is a Singlish joke about Miss Malaysia & Miss Singapore, cant believe i got it after i google Singlish jokes. Here it is to share with yall.. Its only for viewer above 18 years old..

Miss Singapore
One of the main reasons why in recent years the Singapore Government has always ensured that their Miss Universe representative were of tertiary level education or higher was because of the following incident which occurred not too many years ago. It is the final round of the Miss Universe Pageant and the 3 finalists, Miss USA, Miss Malaysia and Miss Singapore are being asked 3 simple questions:

MC: The first question is name me an electrical appliance starting with "L"

Miss USA: Lamp

Miss Malaysia: Light bulb

Miss Singapore: LADIO

Judge: No, no, Radio does not start with the letter "L"

MC: I am going to give you 2 more chances; The next question is name me an animal starting with the letter "L"

Miss USA: Lion

Miss Malaysia: Leopard

Miss Singapore: LABBIT

Judge: No, no, no, Rabbit does not start with the letter "L"

MC: I am going to give you one last chance, if you answer this question
incorrectly, you are disqualified.

Name me a fruit starting with the letter "L"

Miss USA: Lemon

Miss Malaysia: Lychee

Miss Singapore, with full of confidence, smiles and says: LIEWLIAN !

This is not the end of the story, the Judge consulted the board of judges to determine if Miss Singapore should really disqualified; and they decided that since Miss Singapore was having as many problems with the letter "L", the decided to give her another chance.

Judge: OK, the final question is name me a human anatomy starting with the letter "L"

Miss USA: Lung (applause)

Miss Malaysia: Liver (even more applause)

Miss Singapore: LAN CHEOW ! (highlight the blank space for answer)

Judge: ?????????!!!!

Having the Right Prospective.

What are Prospective? Prospect are something expected, a possibility, chances, to explore the result on something you are aiming at. When we facing down in life there will be negative prospect about getting up and as my blog is mostly about positive vibe, having the right prospective on the ups and downs in life is a must, especially when in times of downs. We often face discouragement, disappointment and unwanted result that not only bring us down but it bring down the world and everything in it that we have work hard for. But i can tell you seed of discouragement can't take roots in the grateful heart.

The key is no matter what situation you're in there will be a side to be thankful for. Example a naive friend of mine quit his job to pursuit a better career and it didn't work out well for him and he started to blame his friends, God, and finally himself. Yes it will all back to you for mostly the decision is all in your hands. Thank God my friend pull through now, i spoken to him last month he change from having a negative prospective to a positive side, he might not have the job he wanted now for Chinese New Year is coming and tough time for him to find one but at least he had a part time job to support his very needs. He thank God for that, and i Amen to that. So stop thinking why this and why that, instead thank God for how far he has bring you.

 Well having a positive attitude towards it, is very important too. Sometimes we aiming on succeed for too much till imagine we're actually succeeding and making us neglecting the process of "how to get there". Like we often imagine our self as an millionaire or a billionaire and what sort of things we might do, whom we might bless, how big our house is going to be and we didn't think of how to get there until we were in the process of reaching it. All i know is the process of the a successful life is not easy at all for if you understand the real meaning of "Thank God for what you already have" you are a billionaire. Cause everyday is a gift from God cause we don't always have everyday like everyone else. Everyday we read somebody get shot nor killed in the news and you got to be thankful that it is not you.

1st Post of 2012

Yup i was wonder what was my 1st post on 2012 gonna be, but then i woke up 

on 6:35am in the earliest morning i ever woken up by myself since 2002-04 when i was in my high school.

I cant believe i was craving for vitagen, after i had one i plan to go on to sleep but as i look out to the window and look at the people going to work, some going to school (i think). Makes me reminisce back the time when i was in 2000-2004. And that feeling is back to me like BAM! 1st POST OF 2012!

Yes, back to school, but aren't the kids starting school on 4th of january?

Well who cares anyway i'm just self woke up by some hot girl in the vitagen craving for my name or should i say i was craving for it. Guess my 1st post was memorable, woken up craving for vitagen. And so what do i do in such hour, couldn't put myself to sleep so i watch season 6 of How I Met Your Mother?, watching that show kinda making me wonder what is my wife doing now.. sleeping? craving for vitagen too? going to school?..partying till now at Vistana Hotel?..haha.. what ever...

 Good Morning!

* 2012 *

Well, what more can i say 2012 is coming with in this few hours. And all i can think about is what a great year its gonna be. I don't know how prosper i might be in the coming 2012 but i know my God is on the throne and he will bless me, my family and my friends.

2012 suppose to be a doomsday for people that watch 2012, the slogan for that movie is "we were warned" but the latest research on our world ending seems delay check out here on : http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/39746543/ns/technology_and_science-science/t/end-world-delayed-mayan-calendar/

is it a good news ? what the hell right, i believe only God knows when is this going to occur.

To me no matter its end of the world or not or what ever it may bring all i'm looking forward to the upcoming years with this quotes " Don't take things for granted for the things you have are already the best, maybe what you have now is not seems so promising but it will shape you to be more stronger if we put our position on a positive vibe. "

So stop being in negative vibe and start setting up goals for the upcoming years of victory, i believe we can do all things if we put our mind into it, remember reader " We are Victor not Victim! "

Have a bless year ahead.

God Bless Yall!