Nowadays couple have a big argument, mostly started with little things that they doesn't want to tell it out, they thought its just a small problem and let it be.
But why keep bringing it out when its just a small problem? Thing is, we mostly love each other too much thinking that little problem were really "little" but fact is some big argument started by the past of so call little problem.
Sometimes we must just let our partners know that what way they do was offended to us. In that way we able to comprehend some situation that were going to be big. Beside that knowing and accepting each other were a tough job when a couple together for quite some time. Everything will seems nice at first when the chemical reaction were there to sparkling on seeing the bad point into a good point, but can your partner tell out your bad point you guys were in the stage of loving? Not mostly can is definitely can.
Even when our partner fart, we would tend to say "oh its okay.. everybody fart" with a smile. Think rational if you want a long lasting relationship. Unless you thinking about puppy love or looking forward to changing new partners.
Bad experience in love? No worry, learn from it and move on cause we tend to grow from bad experiences, and neglecting the experience of your friend might be bad too cause your are smart if you learn from experience but you will be wise if you learn from others bad experiences.
Okay, this story is about a boy got bully due to some girl with crazy eyes, girls, do you know what guys afraid the most ?. Yes girls with crazy eyes
<< this is how girls with crazy eyes looks like, or why don't you google it to see more.
Back to my story, this boy was trying to enjoy a festival of joy and prosperous, but when this festival about to end he receive a phone call and was told to return a very important thing, according to the girl with crazy eyes that call the boy, it was said that he was not suppose to take that thing but it was given in an misunderstanding way. Sort of. So that boy need to return it.
The girl with crazy eyes not knowing that boy's friend know that girl with crazy eyes boss and he call to get more detail from her boss if its part of the company policy if it is that boy will return back that thing, cause he will respect that company policy but after a short conversation with the boss, that crazy eye girl was told to call back to that boy and that thing will not take away from him. Moral of the lesson, before you try to bully or beat the dog, do consider the owner of the dog 1st, cause you just might get bite back, ;)
Viral Factor is a 2012 Hong Kong action film directed by Dante Lam starring the two heart drop Jay Chou & Nicholas Tse, along with supporting actor like Andy On and Carl Ng. The movie was 80% film in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. Proud of that? Yes i am.
Nicholas Tse was see taking a cap.
It a non-stop action film fill with tears and moral. The movie can't keep my eyes of it, they have such a great script and great actor in combination. I have to say Jay's acting skill have been improved. This movie make me feels that there is no impossibility in making an action film in Malaysia!. The last i remember was Jackie Chan's Police Story 3 starring along with Michelle Yeoh, but it was only the last part that film in Malaysia.
This Movie is a must watch movie, i personally give it 4/5 stars.
This is the year of the dragon. And dragon represent wisdom and power, usually with many magical ability, Dragons are depicted as wise and helpful entities, much to the contrast to their western kin, In China they mostly represent royalty and often worn by Emperor.
Dragon are one of the 12 animal in chinese zodiac which is use to designate years in the chinese calender. It is though that each animal is associated with certain personality traits. Dragon years are usually the most popular to have babies. Means 2011 is the year of sex-pumping-drive years for then only there will be more babies born in Dragon years than in any other animal years of the zodiac.
RunRay is here wishing all of my family and friends on social net-work and non-social net work a Happy and Prosperous Chinese New Year!
Perfect, i believe everyone wants to be perfect but nobody is. Some even try to avoid the issue of their wrong doing in order to not gain any imperfect image about them. But i learn something new today that sometimes admitting our imperfect part of us doesn't make us grow weak but grow strong instead.
Mostly leaders or adult like me tend to forget the greatest truth, "We are only human" we are not perfect, not God and forever wont be.
That's why i believe sometimes big crisis happen in our life is to remind us that we are still humans and we all have weakness, in fact we all have a bundle of flaws and imperfections : physical, emotional,intellectual and spiritual. We sometimes have uncontrolled circumstances that weaken us such as financial or relational limitations.
Admit your weakness own up to your imperfections.
Stop pretending to have it all together, and be honest about your self. Instead of living in denial or making excuses, take the time to identify your personal weakness.
As in the bible say "I'm glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may work through me..". Weakness prevent arrogance, they keep us humble.
I went to the barber shop today and i found something funny about it, no its not related to the picture above its just something i add in to catch your attention. Okay back to my story, i was in the barber shop with my friend and i bum into a " hi hi friend " of mine that walks in, he so surprise to see me and he say " eh u haha, cut hair ah? ", I say " Ya.. haha.. " then i said to myself " if not then what would i be here for, shitting? "
I guess this our culture.
It reminds me sometimes i bum into some friend in the toilet they will say "hey come toilet ah?".
The answer i will give is not mostly but definitely a "Ya" and my heart will say "Of cz i come toilet i am in the toilet!"
I believe there is nothing as forever optimist and think again life is too short to be wasted on negative vibe.
So what the hell right ? just think positive and move on. You wont forever stuck on the same path if you willing to let it. Its all your choice. When you being in a situation that nothing come close to being lucky i believe there is always something to be thankful for, cause God always make a way for those whom trust in him.
Check out this picture above, he got a point, its like a pessimist and an optimist, so much the worst and so much the better. Winston Chuchill once said " A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity but an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty."
I think i'm blogging about the best topic ever, sex...ual stuff... There is a good understanding on those 3 words, especially for youngster that started to have question on lust, sexual arousal and physical attraction. Not only for youngster i realize many people don't know that different between that too. They are not the same. God made every one of us a sexual being, and that is good. Attraction and arousal are natural stuff and are spontaneous.
Look at that picture, we were naturally given responses to physical beauty, while lust is a deliberate act of the will. Lust is a choice to commit in your mind what you'd like to do with your body. Mistake and guilt often occur after you let lust took over.
Some men feel guilty when their hormones are working, when they automatically notice an attractive woman, they assume it is lust and feel ashamed and condemned in such feeling. But attraction is not lust until you begin to dwell on it. Below picture shown lust is taking over. GG!
Like a catch phrase said by Martin Luther, " You cannot keep birds from flying over your head but you can keep them from building a nest in you hair. ". You can't keep the lust from suggesting thoughts, but you can choose not to dwell or act on them. Hope this those who read this post will get the message what i'm about to express.
I remember there is a Singlish joke about Miss Malaysia & Miss Singapore, cant believe i got it after i google Singlish jokes. Here it is to share with yall.. Its only for viewer above 18 years old..
Miss Singapore One of the main reasons why in recent years the Singapore Government has always ensured that their Miss Universe representative were of tertiary level education or higher was because of the following incident which occurred not too many years ago. It is the final round of the Miss Universe Pageant and the 3 finalists, Miss USA, Miss Malaysia and Miss Singapore are being asked 3 simple questions:
MC: The first question is name me an electrical appliance starting with "L"
Miss USA: Lamp
Miss Malaysia: Light bulb
Miss Singapore: LADIO
Judge: No, no, Radio does not start with the letter "L"
MC: I am going to give you 2 more chances; The next question is name me an animal starting with the letter "L"
Miss USA: Lion
Miss Malaysia: Leopard
Miss Singapore: LABBIT
Judge: No, no, no, Rabbit does not start with the letter "L"
MC: I am going to give you one last chance, if you answer this question incorrectly, you are disqualified.
Name me a fruit starting with the letter "L"
Miss USA: Lemon
Miss Malaysia: Lychee
Miss Singapore, with full of confidence, smiles and says: LIEWLIAN !
This is not the end of the story, the Judge consulted the board of judges to determine if Miss Singapore should really disqualified; and they decided that since Miss Singapore was having as many problems with the letter "L", the decided to give her another chance.
Judge: OK, the final question is name me a human anatomy starting with the letter "L"
Miss USA: Lung (applause)
Miss Malaysia: Liver (even more applause)
Miss Singapore: LAN CHEOW ! (highlight the blank space for answer)
What are Prospective? Prospect are something expected, a possibility, chances, to explore the result on something you are aiming at. When we facing down in life there will be negative prospect about getting up and as my blog is mostly about positive vibe, having the right prospective on the ups and downs in life is a must, especially when in times of downs. We often face discouragement, disappointment and unwanted result that not only bring us down but it bring down the world and everything in it that we have work hard for. But i can tell you seed of discouragement can't take roots in the grateful heart.
The key is no matter what situation you're in there will be a side to be thankful for. Example a naive friend of mine quit his job to pursuit a better career and it didn't work out well for him and he started to blame his friends, God, and finally himself. Yes it will all back to you for mostly the decision is all in your hands. Thank God my friend pull through now, i spoken to him last month he change from having a negative prospective to a positive side, he might not have the job he wanted now for Chinese New Year is coming and tough time for him to find one but at least he had a part time job to support his very needs. He thank God for that, and i Amen to that. So stop thinking why this and why that, instead thank God for how far he has bring you.
Well having a positive attitude towards it, is very important too. Sometimes we aiming on succeed for too much till imagine we're actually succeeding and making us neglecting the process of "how to get there". Like we often imagine our self as an millionaire or a billionaire and what sort of things we might do, whom we might bless, how big our house is going to be and we didn't think of how to get there until we were in the process of reaching it. All i know is the process of the a successful life is not easy at all for if you understand the real meaning of "Thank God for what you already have" you are a billionaire. Cause everyday is a gift from God cause we don't always have everyday like everyone else. Everyday we read somebody get shot nor killed in the news and you got to be thankful that it is not you.
Yup i was wonder what was my 1st post on 2012 gonna be, but then i woke up
on 6:35am in the earliest morning i ever woken up by myself since 2002-04 when i was in my high school.
I cant believe i was craving for vitagen, after i had one i plan to go on to sleep but as i look out to the window and look at the people going to work, some going to school (i think). Makes me reminisce back the time when i was in 2000-2004. And that feeling is back to me like BAM! 1st POST OF 2012!
Yes, back to school, but aren't the kids starting school on 4th of january?
Well who cares anyway i'm just self woke up by some hot girl in the vitagen craving for my name or should i say i was craving for it. Guess my 1st post was memorable, woken up craving for vitagen. And so what do i do in such hour, couldn't put myself to sleep so i watch season 6 of How I Met Your Mother?, watching that show kinda making me wonder what is my wife doing now.. sleeping? craving for vitagen too? going to school?..partying till now at Vistana Hotel?..haha.. what ever...
Well, what more can i say 2012 is coming with in this few hours. And all i can think about is what a great year its gonna be. I don't know how prosper i might be in the coming 2012 but i know my God is on the throne and he will bless me, my family and my friends.
is it a good news ? what the hell right, i believe only God knows when is this going to occur.
To me no matter its end of the world or not or what ever it may bring all i'm looking forward to the upcoming years with this quotes " Don't take things for granted for the things you have are already the best, maybe what you have now is not seems so promising but it will shape you to be more stronger if we put our position on a positive vibe. "
So stop being in negative vibe and start setting up goals for the upcoming years of victory, i believe we can do all things if we put our mind into it, remember reader " We are Victor not Victim! "
Li Ka-Shing interview by ME! was definitely just an idea of catching you all's attention to my blog.. haha..Well honestly i wish i was there to interview the world richest chinese descent in east Asian and rank eleventh richest person in the world or maybe working beside him or under his supervision would be far more than grateful. Y'all can catch the full interview on Youtube from part 1 to part 16, very inspiring and wanting you to stop facebook and other social network nor games and start something that pulls your interest.
I have learn alot in his interview and watching it might took few hours but will not in vain as you can see how tough it is to be the richest chinese. We get the glimpse of his daily life from morning on wards. One of the most inspiring true story for me is his 2 HKD fall under a car and if the car moved the 2 HKD will be fallen into the drain, so he lye down and try to reach for it then came a security guard, the security guard help him on his quest for that 2HKD finally they got it and he kept that 2HKD and he give that security guy a 100HKD, moral of the lesson. " If the 2HKD didn't pick up and fallen into the drain it will be in vain, if i give it to a beggar it will make him happy for he will spend it on the things he like, i give 100HKD for that security guy surely he will spend it on something to make himself happy, spend wisely and wasted the money it is two big different - Li Ka-Shing "
To me he is someone that always learning and always listen unlike other superior or bosses i used to work with. He listen to opinion he listen to suggestion for he knows a good and active cooperation requires a good ear, heart, compassion and most of all good to others and it will be good unto you. Hope y'all will learn something through his interview
Two movies in one day, its been awhile since i do that. One in 3D and the other in normal class, i have to give puss in boots 3 and a half star out of 5. Its a very funny movie both for children and adult, and its completely not related to Shrek at all. It tells about how Puss in Boots got his name and his Boots. Watching Puss in Boots make me flash back those kindergarten stories that my teacher use to told us like Jack & Jill, Magic bean, Humpty Dumpty.. in that movie i discover Humpty's full name... haha.. its kinda funny tho.. Puss in Boots really worth your every penny for 3D, and as for Justin Bieber fans out there before the movie started there's a 3D Justin Bieber christmas song.
In the movie there is alot of dancing Spanish music that will make you want to dance on your feet senor! Yall can check out Puss in Boots soundtrack at Youtube and the soundtrack was feature by Lady Gaga in Americano. Here is the video trailers of Puss in Boots in Lady Gaga - Americano. Enjoy!
Okay now it that second movie that i want to introduce, its Petaling Street Warrior starring Mark Lee, Namewee (my man), Yeo Yen Yen, Chris Tong, Frederick Lee and many more Jack Neo and Henry Thia appear as special guest appearance.
The movie was set in Petaling Street in 1908 that tells a pair of lovely married couple name Shi Du Yao (Mark Lee) and Zhung LiChun (Yeo Yann Yann) they both operate a hokkien mee, in that movie Yeo Yann Yann appears as a hot bomb she was needed to insert a pair of water polo on her chest to make herself look big on her boobs, catch my attention alot when she washing the cloths and drying them and.. i think i'll get back to the plot... both couple in that movie suffer the inefficiency of the colonial government and suppression by the chinese gangsters the Hookien Gang and the Cantonese Gang. While he trying to impress his wife, Du Yao encounter a mysterious beautiful kung fu expert, XiaoJu star by Chris Tong, who claim DuYao was the descendant of the Emperor Jianwen of the Ming Dynasty. To stop a group of nasty Qing warrior that lead by half men half women star by Frederick Lee and ninjas from robbing a treasure map that DuYao himself don't even know he has it, due to this circumstances Petaling Street was turn into the ultimate battle group. Facing enemies from both sides with unthinkable powers. I give Petaling Street Warrior a 4stars out of 5, since the opening on 1st December, its 4 days box office collection already hit RM 1.4 million and has surpassed Nasi Lemak 2.0 RM1million and it was also the highest gross of Chinese Films in the week it was 1st shown.
The main song for Petaling Street Warrior was composed, written by Namewee and his friend (forget his name) here it is!
Let me re-introduce my blog to the world, it has been long since its under construction i think its gonna be a year since i blog or maybe more than that. Yes, RunRay.. Why use RunRay as my alter ego, when as yall know my name is Rendy, and my previous boss's mother doesn't know how to pronounce my name RENDY she name me LANDEE (say it in hokkien) and as the news about my new name spread through out the whole factory it become more and more creative LAN-LAI, Ah LAN, LAI-NAI, etc.. some in hokkien pronounce as foul words, when i think about it, it kinda gives me a laugh.. then one of my best colleague say y not name your self as RUNRAY, quite similar to to hokkien pronounce.
Then i decided to name my alter ego as RunRay and use it as a name to my blogging. I doesn't have a specific purpose as a blogger like other celebrity blogger, i just love to blog. That's why i call my self a miscellaneous blogger.
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